Love happens

Truth is that love happens and we often don’t notice. It seems that we have no control over our heart, nor do we choose the directions of the power of attraction of certain people over us. Even so, once we have experienced how others enters our lives, as well as what we have gained or lost from that encounter, we must be ready to decide whether or not we should keep that person close to us. Initially, when passion seems to end any control over our discernment in terms to what the other person brings, we end up overvaluing the qualities, which overlap the failures (what bothers us). We try once, twice, a bazillion times because we are genuinely hopeful that we will receive in exchange for all that we gave. It is difficult indeed to realize when we have tried too hard, too many times, when nothing else seems to work, when mistakes are repeated over and over again. It is a nightmare to face everything that has been or is left to do, everything that has been said or stopped, everything that has been exposed, annihilated, stolen, used, all the lies, silence and excuses. It hurts even more to realize that everything we dreamed and built together has an expiration date. We will always be vulnerable to the undesirable terms of the “forever until death tears us apart” thing. You gotta understand that somethings are supposed to end. It is necessary, therefore, that we are willing to face everything that has not worked out for us, so that we can be free from what has become “useless weight”.

And in the end, no one will deny that no matter how much it hurts, letting that person go, giving up of any situation, any affective ties, for who we are and our happiness, it will always be the best decision to make. You can’t choose who you should love, but you can ALWAYS choose who you should stop loving... keep that in mind.

Because giving up on ourselves should NEVER be an option, and giving up would condemn us to death in life and living will always be greatest thing. Ever! Love,

Rae 💋